Start Your Day With Happiness And End It With Forgiveness

Everyday gonna be a new day for us, new adventure, new friend, new experience and many new thing are waiting for us to be explore. How we gonna start our morning will affect the rest of our day and life, so we should start our day with smile in our face and face all the challenge that waiting for us with joy.  

Before this someone told me about 90/10 principle, discover by Stephen Convey, he said that “10% of life is made up of what happens to you, 90% of life is decided by how you react”. 10% of the things that happen in our life we can’t be control like destiny, but 90% of the things that happen in our life we can control it like our action. Example that he gave that a father mad to his daughter because she knock down a cup of coffee on his shirt. Because of his action by scolding his daughter and blaming his wife cause him to come late to work, get summon and small wedge with his wife. Stephen Convey said it all because of how you reacted will determine your next situation. If the father doesn’t get mad and blaming his wife, maybe everything gonna be fine for him, he will not having the bad day.

Choose the right action so we can have the right situation 

We the one will decide how our day will turn out. If we treat any situation well, maybe our day will gonna be fine, if not maybe we will have our bad day. We just need to be optimistic a bit and be a little patient with anything that happens. Never get too emotional with any situation and it would lead us doing the right choice.

Sometimes God took away the sun, and bring down thunder and lightning. We can’t stop cry looking for sun, actually He gonna give us beautiful rainbow (He Knows Better)

Day will not be sunny all day, sometimes it gonna be raining along the way, but always keep believing that sun will shine again and maybe with rainbow. Our day will not gonna be happy all the way even when we decide to be happy. There will be obstacles along our way, people that envy/annoy with us, bad news/situation and other bad things, but don’t let any of that or anything let us down, keep going and sun will shine again with rainbow at the end (good things happen).  


After all day being happy, at night when we gonna sleep, let us end our day with forgiving. Let go all the hatred, envy, revenge or any bad feeling that make our heart hurt. Some people said that they will forgive but not forget. For me I would like to keep behind all the bad memory, not really forget about it but just don't think about it so much, so it will make me easy to forgive. I know forgiving is not a really easy thing to do, especially when someone we trust turn us down, but from keeping it in our heart we will suffer more, so better just let it go. By doing this we doing huge favor for other and ourselves (removing paint in our heart).

Forgiving just like letting go the bad memory and giving it the second chance

Forgive everyone that have done all the bad thing to us no matter big things or small things, and then look back all the things that we have done and revalue it. By doing this just like we purifying ourselves, so tomorrow we start a very new day with a new chapter with wonderful memory. 

Start EACH DAY with SMILE and end it with HAPPY ENDING

From : Dr Bear